In a study in London hospitals (Ultrasound in Obstetrics & Gynecology, 2021), 192 couples were followed after a miscarriage or ectopic pregnancy. One month later, 34% of women had symptoms of post-traumatic stress, and after 9 months 21% still did. Moderate or severe anxiety affected 30% of women after one month and 22% after 9 months.
What about partners?
Partners’ rates were lower, but not zero: 7% had symptoms of post-traumatic stress after one month and 4% after 9 months. This shows that both may need support.
What this means for you
- Sadness, anxiety or intrusive memories after a loss are common and understandable.
- If symptoms don’t ease after a few weeks, see a professional.
- Ask how your partner is doing too: they may be keeping quiet.
Sources
- Farren J, Jalmbrant M, Falconieri N et al. Differences in post-traumatic stress, anxiety and depression following miscarriage or ectopic pregnancy between women and their partners: multicenter prospective cohort study. Ultrasound Obstet Gynecol. 2021;57(1):141–148. doi:10.1002/uog.23147